more questions... without answers

why do women have this craving to look nice? i mean more than men. i mean everyone wants to look nice but why is it so valuable to women that they do? and what if they dont naturally? why cant the world accept that a woman could be ok with the way she is? is all this craving to be liked, the underlying insecurity, a result of decades and centuries of male dominant societies? or is it natural and hormonal? or are the hormones conditioned to send such signals to the brain, by the attitudes of men who desire us? what has love got to do with looks? yeah it does i guess. with the way people desire what makes them drool. but is desire all there is to love? or is it simply such a large proportion that all else is conditional on it? i didn't fall in love with the faces i'v been bowled over by.